Author: quantumlina

Many teachings focus on dividing Twin Flame journey into stages, often getting lost in their own labels, definitions and explanations, narrowing down to the elements of the entire experience. While there are definitely separate parts that can be differentiated as you grow and evolve as a soul since the moment of ignition, it is important to bring back the entire picture. It should be considered as a unique test and one of the most important stages in your spiritual evolution altogether.

Each major spiritual milestone brings new level of understanding, gets us to another level. However, there’s always a price to be paid for each increase of consciousness, how one of my favorite philosophers used to say. Embodying subsequent parts of our soul require repeated detachment at different levels of our existence. Only through fully embracing given experience we are able to achieve energetic balance once necessary change on a soul level was triggered.

“The process of internal reconfiguration in most cases requires several intense heart-felt experiences at the soul level, although it usually begins during the initial ignition state and continues throughout the separation stage. The key here is to embrace the connections and experience in its entirety, that is including the most extreme and negative emotions of pain, grief, despair and hopelessness we often try to avoid.”

As multidimensional spiritual beings consisting on several interwoven layers simultaneously, we attract to us circumstances that bring about major life events and experiences, which goal is to reconstruct unhealthy and imperfect parts of ourselves represented by given layer. This include but are not limited to emotions, material possessions, health, safety, etc. The end goal of each step of such reconstruction is progressive detachment from illusions of the material plane, at the same time bringing us closer to our true nature and living fully in 3 dimensional space and acting, creating, thriving and building soulful connections from the place of freedom and non-attachment.

To put that into perspective, Twin Flame journey is an example of a primarily emotional experience. Therefore, it’s main goal is to trigger our emotional body that was stuck in unhealthy patterns related to relationship, family and society repeated throughout the generations. The process of internal reconfiguration in most cases requires several intense heart-felt experiences at the soul level, although it usually begins during the initial ignition state and continues throughout the separation stage. The key here is to embrace the connections and experience in its entirety, that is including the most extreme and negative emotions of pain, grief, despair and hopelessness we often try to avoid.

Why do we need negative parts as well? Can’t we just use the positive ones to upgrade our emotional body? It is all about the vibrations. Each emotional state is associated with specific vibrational frequency and the more complete spectrum, the easier and more successful the process of reconfiguration. Once you have processed most of the emotional spectrum, it is possible to transmute the entire experience and naturally detach from it, without forcing and expecting anything. This is usually the moment that we feel release and freedom from the connection, stop worrying about the outcome, and in many cases, connection will start organically dissolving, as it is served its purpose on an energetic level. Especially for the people involved in a Twin Flame dynamic, it does not mean, that they abandon their journey altogether. They simply reach the next phase of the development and understanding. They begin to see immensity of the experience, they start questioning the labels, and conditioning and realize that from now on the truth can only be found within.

This is also the moment, when many will hear “YOU PASSED THE TEST” loud and clear.

Are you ready to pass yours?

Twin Flame dynamic is one of the soul experiences that can trigger your spiritual awakening and should be seen as nothing more than a stage in your inner development. The more you progress on the journey, detach emotionally from your external experience and develop the connection with your Higher Self, the more details regarding the Twin Flame dynamic and your entire existence are gradually being revealed to you. The good news is – that no matter the stage of your Twin Flame connection, you can consciously work towards the ultimate graduation from Twin Flame process to achieve higher state of consciousness and understanding of the whole process. Graduating from the Twin Flame stage of the Ascension process consists of the set of trials of maturity on all levels of awareness.

From the moment of the ignition, both people involved in a Twin Flame dynamic begin to evolve and are occasionally being tested by circumstances beyond their comfort zone. In the face of all the challenges a person has a choice to overcome fears, dysfunctional patterns and outdated beliefs and evolve or step back, stay in the same place or even fall out from the journey. Twin Flame energy is expressed originally through two people representing an exact vibrational match. However, differences in mental, spiritual and emotional levels of development often lead to disagreements and imbalance within the connection. It is up to individuals if they are able to overcome the challenge. When one (or both) individuals are not sufficiently prepared to face upcoming issue this may lead to conflicts, toxic behaviors or even separation. Unless Twin Flame counterparts are able to maintain healthy balance within the connection, they will not succeed to recreate the unified field experienced by them at the initial stage during the ignition. Failing to maintain a high – level connection at the balance state often results in the separation.

“Twin Flame dynamic is one of the soul experiences that can trigger your spiritual awakening and should be seen as nothing more than a stage in your inner development. The more you progress on the journey detach emotionally from your external experience and develop the connection with your Higher Self, the more details regarding the Twin Flame connection and your entire existence are gradually being revealed to you.”

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Irrespective of whether the original set of Twin Flames decide to continue journey together or not – it does not define the outcome of the Twin Flame process and individuals can still evolve, even in separation. To reach the next step of the journey when individuals are in separation people need to express a complete surrender to the journey and accept the current state of the connection, trusting completely the Twin Flame energy formed during the ignition.

This next stage can be seen as “graduation” from the separation stage, and allows the individual to reach a higher level of awareness and deeper understanding of the entire ascension process.

To graduate from the journey therefore, one needs to detach emotionally and energetically from the person – from the Twin Flame counterpart. If one or both individuals will choose to continue their development of an inner work they will increase their level of consciousness and be connected with another individual at a similar level of awareness, who possesses personality traits as well as spiritual and emotional conditions which can facilitate further growth of both people if they decide to evolve within the connection.

Note: as with every soul connection people will be facing challenges on a human level it depends solely on their level of maturity and responsibility if they decide to advance within the connection and depend upon which ultimately will lead to uniting the consciousness of both individuals.

To sum up, Twin Flame stage is a part of your individual spiritual journey. It is your choice and responsibility to advance within the soul connections entering your life for this exact purpose. One thing to remember though is to always act from the truth and recognize whether the connection gives you the peace and growth and be mindful of your own well-being.

After shiny and sweet bubble love phase we all have to come back to earth at some point. Trying to solve issues brought up by unhealed wounds, belief systems and programming, most often than not, Twin Flames have no other choice but to part their ways. At the beginning, separation leaves us confused, lost and hopeless. However the ultimate lesson and core purpose of this phase is to bring the attention to the most important person in your own universe – yourself.

For many people, separation stage is the first moment in their life when they finally start noticing themselves and realize how much they abandoned their own needs for the sake of other people, career or material possessions. This self-abandonment is primarily caused by lack of self-responsibility. In general, we avoid taking responsibility for our own happiness and tend to project our needs of overall mental end emotional well-being condition onto other people, especially our partner.

From my experience, we are not aware of our codependent tendencies, often leaving the responsibility for our happiness in our partner’s hand. In addition, today’s society promotes the idea of finding someone who will make you feel “whole” and fulfilled in your life, implying that true joy within relationship is dependent on another person. This massive confusion creates unnecessary tension in ourselves, which can easily creep into our other relationships. We are programmed to look for “the one” who will make us complete which is the fast track to codependent relationships, in which is a fast track to unhealthy pattern of codependent relationship, in which one partner is emotionally, mentally or spiritually reliant on another.

This is a space where Twin Flame connection shines bright like a diamond. Shortly after meeting our Twin Flame counterpart, we are thrown into higher state of consciousness where we experience the state of pure love. This is a connection as any other. There is no place for shame, guilt, pain or fear and we feel like the person is able to give us eternal peace and happiness.

The problem begins, when the bubble love ends and we are brought back to earth. At some point, we are not able to maintain this magical state anymore and all internal conflicts and wounds start to come out. This usually leads to separation which leaves one person in confusion, pain and despair after being abandoned and another in fear, anger and/or hopelessness when they see they have to leave the connection. The most beautiful part of the separation process begins some time after. Having no other choice, one begins their inner work and self-insight which leads to realization that true joy and and fulfillment comes from the place that is always with us and can be found through the act of self-love.

Throughout the process of self-healing, we gradually come out of our shell and begin to see the world as it is, not through the lenses fogged by previous projections and fears. We stop seeing ourselves as a victim of the entire situation and start working ourselves. This usually begins by taking a better care of ourselves, discovering new passions, developing new, healthy relationships or improving existing ones and leads to overall improvement of our life.

Our well-being and internal balance is being reflected in other connections, since we do not engage in drama, fights or blame games anymore, putting our comfort and peace as a priority.

In parallel to our self-development, we begin to develop a closer relationship with the universe and embrace our intuition which was guiding us back to our true self up to this point. We become more aware of divine energies that have orchestrated the entire experience for our own personal growth and were accompanying us along the whole journey. The entire spiritual path becomes easier as we realize that everything that happens in our lives meant to make us the best version of ourselves.

While the separation phase can initially seen as a punishment, one is able to realize the true value of this stage once they shift the focus back to themselves. By healing our wounds and traumas and overcoming all the fears that were holding us back all our lives, we embrace their own destiny and bring our internal world to balance.

Running and chaser stage, being one of the most distinct phases of Twin Flame journey, is also the most tumultuous one. It is created by the lack of psychological and spiritual maturity in one or both individuals. Since developing healthy, balanced relationship can only be achieved between fully matured people who are able to understand and accept other person as they are, not influenced by old belief systems, projections and illusions.  One has to comprehend psychological blocks and walls that led to the separation in the first place.

It is not uncommon to switch the roles between runner and chaser. People who take a role of a runner in a connection run from the fear of the relationship. The are often confused by the connection and are afraid of the confrontation with their own emotions -they are afraid of receiving the love. Little do they know, that the very thing that make them reject the connection in the first place is keeping them in an emotional cage, stopping them from growth. Only when they are ready to face their own shadows and focus on their healing, they will realize two things: 1) that they are worth the love they subconsciously desire, and 2) the only person to is able to give them this love is within their own self.   

The role of chaser is characterized by more active behaviors in the connection. They feel the need of emotional connection with their counterpart and they try to control the situation to keep the connection alive. They are afraid of losing the connection, they are afraid of losing the love they experienced, most of the times being more aware of the special nature of the soul bond.

Since the ignition, both people are connected with strong energetic bond, which reflects the emotional state of towards the connection. Strong emotional involvement of the chaser is send as energy towards the runner, which creates even more tension and pushes runner to distance themselves even further from the connection. The dynamic can only be brought into balance once both people are able to maintain neutral energetic position with regards to the connection. That means, that the chaser needs to withdraw emotional attachment towards the runner and surrendering to the process, giving the runner chance to independently do the inner work and achieve the proper level of spiritual and mental maturity which will allow to see the value of the connection.

It is important to recognize, that throughout our journey we have multiple chances to develop deep soul connection which can transform into Twin Flame dynamic. The reason being that if the “original” Twin Flame (person who awaken us to a journey)  is not able to continue with the journey with their counterpart for whatever reason, the universe still supports the development an individual soul willing to grow and progress on their spiritual journey. By raising their vibration, they are able to attract another energetic match which achieved similar level of personal maturity and is able to enter the and take part in the Twin Flame connection with more awareness, compassion and understanding of the process. 

Playing out the roles of runner and chaser gives a chance to recognize and heal all the trauma, wounds and dysfunctional  patterns that were present in their families which were the cause of subconscious unhealthy behaviors that were magnified by the “original” Twin Flame connection. Only when the individual, through their internal work, achieves the proper level of mental, spiritual and emotional development, they stop playing games of running and chasing, begin acting from their heart and focusing on developing the connections that bring them joy and peace, first with themselves, and then with everyone else. This is the most important lesson everyone has to learn as Twin Flames to be ready to achieve the next  (and probably most important) stage of the journey – internal union from within, surrendering to the Divine Energies and allowing their life to unfold according to their true soul path.

One of the most knowledgeable people in the Twin Flame, Mel Brand from Goldray Twin Flames once: “After you connect with you Twin Flame, your world as you knew – disappears”. This cannot be more true my experience is no different. In this post, I would like to share with you the weirdest experiences that accompanied me along my TF journey so far as well as major changes in my life (so far). To be honest, these experiences started to happen to me in the past, but I was not able to explain them using intellect, so I repressed them for many years. 

1. I discovered the whole new world of metaphysics and spirituality.

Raised as a Catholic, I have grown into atheist and skeptic seeing all the hypocrisy and manipulation of Catholic Church. I have not believed in any religion and although the idea of being born – living – dying was pretty depressing. Right now I have opened to the whole new world and I started seeing below the limitations of 3D world. My TF used to share many metaphysical stories with me, but at that time I was not able to believe in all of that. One year later – I am receiving guidance from my Higher Self, not only believe, but also know deeply, that we are way more than a physical body and mind.

2. I experienced numerous metaphysical experiences (Out-Of-Body and Near-Death experiences, visions, premonitions) 

I have had several weird (to say at least) experiences. Although I was initially contributing it to the encounter with my TF, but once looked into my live with new, free mind, I have to say that mystical experiences have always been the part of my life. Some examples: 

• OBE (Out-Of-Body experiences)– it started in high school. Once, when I had been asked by the teacher in front of the whole class, I could literally observe myself as another person, from the outside. Another time, I have been trying meditating at the workshop for the first time in my life. In this meditative state, I have suddenly started hovering and could see myself from above.
• Visions/premonitions – When I went for a walk, I have “seen” a white figure sitting with the legs crossed. I have not been meditating or anything, it just appeared in front of me. I have also had some “prophetic” visions, for example I had a glimpse of the new tattoo which I got within the next couple of weeks. Also,
• NDE (Near-Death-Experiences) – I clearly remember one of the most scary night in my life, when I got this strange panic attack and I have felt like I am dying. It felt like out of this world, in another dimension. My TF was going through very similar experience at the same time.

3. I started having vivid, often telepathic dreams about other places and people.

Over the last couple months, I have started to have intense vivid dreams. I have dreamed about people and places I know, but also totally new worlds, sometimes from the future. From time to time, I am dreaming about the issue which happens in my house on another continent (for example I am dreaming about some subject after mu mum tells me she was talking about it or doing the actually activity. Another time, I have felt intense knee pain in my dream. On the next day, my dad told me he has hurt his knee on the same day)     

4. I experienced “the void”

One of the weirdest and by far my personal favorite. I will write about a separate post about that experience, but I wanted also to mention it here:  
In short, after quite intensive intoxication (considerable amount of wine) during sleep, I have been “woken up” with the words “I am now in a perfect alignment with myself”. And in that moment I have been taken to some  void and dark place. I could not see or feel anything, but I was aware of myself and my body. Nothing happened there. It was just a darkness and emptiness. I have no idea how long it lasted, but once I came back, I had no idea what actually happened. The closest definition and most possible explanation I have found so far is what others described by Hinduism and Buddism as Śūnyatā (I.e. “void” or “emptiness”). It is also described as “seeing one’s true nature”. In the end, I guess emptiness is all there is :))  

5. My empathic abilities increased (significantly)

I have noticed that I became extremely sensitive to other people’s energies, especially negative ones. I can become overwhelmed when some person has strong feelings towards me. Example, One of my relatives got angry with me and could literally feel he wants me out of the room, although he did not say anything. I have had also some empathic experiences empathically with my TF, when I could feel his intense unpleasant emotions and fear although he was thousands kilometers away. In addition, when I am nearby the large crowd, I can get very emotional, sometimes even experiencing something close to panic state. 

6. I developed “inner wisdom”

Since connecting with my TF, very often I have a deeper understanding of interpersonal connections and realization of the complete inter-connectedness in this world. I have learned to see the bigger picture and I started noticing, how the things seen by others as a problem, challenge or punishment, is actually a blessing in disguise. I have gained understanding of life in general, and people often tell me, that I am very wise and mature for my age. 

7. I became super intuitive

My gut feeling has never been stronger! In addition to weird feeling in my stomach, I often get chills on my arms, whenever there is some kind of message I should pay attention or resonates with me on a vibrational level. It is interesting that the thing which guided me towards exploring the connection with the person who I suspect to be my TF came was actually triggered by unstoppable intuitive nudge.

8. I (re)discovered by emotional and feminine side

Being intellectual all my life, I have finally started feeling the deepest emotions and connect with people intensively. People are often attracted to me and I am able to build deep connections with them . Even most shy and private people share their secrets with me. I have discovered my emotional, feminine side which introduced me to the whole new dimension. Finally, I am feeling complete, as I have filled the emptiness I have been longing for my entire life. 

9. I became a master manifestor

Do you believe in law of attraction? When I was in highschool, I have read “The secret” but did not really believed that we create our own reality wit our thoughts. Since I opened myself to inner guidance, my dreams and desires started to manifest super fast. I decided to learn more about manifesting to make sure I use the full potential of this beautiful vibrational world that we live in <3.

Overall, I believe meeting my TF was meant to make me aware that there’s more to this world than meets the eye. I won’t even mention about energetic shifts, synchronicities, numerous accidental encounters with people in the right place in time and ongoing universal support that happens to me on a daily basis. It only gets better! 

Twin Flame journey is considered by many as the most challenging, enriching and eye-opening connections between people to be experienced in their lifetime. The whole process is believed to be orchestrated by the Soul itself in order to trigger spiritual awakening. I like to compare it to the game in which a soul chooses the main characters (Twin Flames), scenario and environment as well as some intriguing plot twists in order to push us to the edge and, eventually, reward us with reaching higher states of consciousness.  

The concept is simple: Bring two people from very different environments together a result of the most unbelievable and flamboyant coincidences. Most times people are drawn to specific places without a particular reason and they meet by accident. Looking back, it can be viewed as something ‘has caused’ two people to meet, as it was arranged for them. It is not rare that the timing of these meetings is not right. Despite instant recognition and intense connection between two people, there are often multiple obstacles that stand in the way. There is either significant age difference, language barriers or cultural differences. Another very common signs of these connections is the fact that people seem to be the their exact opposites in terms of personality. For instance, while one person is very reserved, the other might be very frivolous and relaxed. Or one is calm, another is short tempered, you know the drill.

Why do TF seem to be the total opposites of each other? Actually, it is not a coincidence that our TF is polarized at the personal/mental level. The purpose of this polarization is to put the light on our darkest sides, which hidden (by ourselves) in the deepest parts of our personalities.  

Very often we tend to ignore our imperfections, weaknesses and destructive habits. There are many things to be grateful to your TF, but the most important one is the ability of pushing the right buttons. Every set of Twin Flames is given an opportunity to experience the blissful love state (aka bubble love phase) at the beginning stage of the connection. During bubble love phase they talk for hours, discuss all the possible topics and sharing the most personal traumas and problems from one’s life. I personally believe, that the purpose of those deep, long-lasting conversations each pair of TF experiences is to highlight the main issues regarding their mental, emotional and physical health that need to be address to reach the personal balance. These are simply a core issues that hold you back from becoming the best version of yourself. Initially, most TF assume the ‘necessity’ of addressing shadow parts because to become the ideal person for their “ideal partner”. Later in the process, they start to realize that the whole purpose of this initial connection was to bring your attention to YOU. In order to come to this point, one need to realize that the most important relationship in everyone’s life is the relationship with yourself.  

I consider the realization of self-importance as one of the most important steps in the whole journey. Once you realize and deeply feel, that you should take care of your personal issues and flaws for yourself, you gain the sincere interest in your self-development and you are on your way to falling in love.. With yourself.  

There’s no other person you can ‘save’, ‘heal’, and ‘fix’.  Focus on becoming the most beautiful being you were intended to become in the first place. No one said this journey is easy, but trust me: embracing it instead of resisting it makes it easier, less painful and way more interesting.

Allow yourself to shift perspective. 

Once you experience Twin Flame energy, there is no way to ignore it. This is a very unique experience which is most commonly triggered by encountering a person who seems like a ”perfect match’. But what is the purpose of these high-vibrational connections?

Surprisingly, being in a relationship is not the main point here. Instead, TF connection gives you an opportunity to learn, grow and evolve. True purpose is complex – it is supposed to teach you self-love and regain your inner power. Here are 5 purposes of a TF connection:

1. It triggers your spiritual awakening
2. It shows the happiness and potential available for you in this universe
3. Makes you stand on your own feet
4. It helps your personality to evolve
5. It allows you to see life from a new perspective

Let’s look at every point in details.

1. It triggers your spiritual awakening

Upon meeting your TF, there is instant recognition, however it does not been you will have a chance to explain this connection further. In some case, initial meeting is just planting the seed, waiting until both parties are ready to enter the next level of this experience (it lasted EXACTLY 7 years in our case before we had a chance to reach the next level and get together).
Many years can pass but once the time is right (and you have grown spiritually and mentally), you will be guided towards exploring this connection further. I have personally been receiving intuitive nudges periodically and have felt deep, undefined emptiness and longing feeling all this time, knowing that someone out there is waiting for me. I did not know back then it was about my TF and I have decided to cut the connection as the frustration and wondering “what if” become unbearable and I decided to move on with my life. Few years later my life situation became too unsatisfactory, my stable and peaceful relationship has started to fall apart and I was truly unhappy, asking myself “is that it?” and I have felt unstoppable urge to reach out to my TF. Once we started talking again, we became deeply connected and missing feeling was gone once it happened, as if we have finally found the person we were waiting all our lives (the other party has felt the same all this time and confirmed the longing feeling was suddenly gone once we reach the next level – bubble love phase).

2. It shows the happiness and potential available for you

Once the intensive connection begins to take form, you might feel everything fall into place and you have found the person you were dreaming about all your life. You feel beyond blessed, because you have finally found the love described in books, songs and movies. Happiness is way to simple to describe this state.

For me personally, it took about 2 weeks to accept the whole situation and comprehend it by my mind. Every morning I would wake up thinking ‘Is this real?’.

Once your connection starts going through some major shitstorm and arguments, you are gradually brought back to earth. It is very likely that you too separate because there are lessons you have to learn on your own. Most importantly, at some point of this journey you realize the love you have found within yourself was meant for you and you only right from beginning (fill your cup up first, you are not able to create real balanced relationship unless you love yourself). Once you realize this, you are on the way to Union. With yourself!

3. It makes you stand on your own feet

TF connection is a source of pure happiness and joy. All the earthly matters seem so irrelevant. You become immersed in the connection with another person. You can talk to each other for hours. The purpose is to show you that what state of happiness really means. It is a teaser for you, as the phase of intensive love does not last forever. Once shit hits the fan you are brought to reality and the old limiting beliefs, patterns and personal fears and inhibitions start to emerge.

But once was then taken from me so I could get to this point by myself. It is the tangible example of pure happiness available for you once you are ready for it. And I understand why many people get angry or frustrated once the bubble love phase ends. they would love to stay in it forever but it i s not possible. It cannot last forever because it is one of the steps in the process of your spiritual evolution.

4. It helps your personality to evolve

At some time of the process, you manage to pass through the stage defined by some as “dark night of the soul” associated with the first stage of separation phase, after the end of bubble love phase. As a result, you become stronger and more independent. It is very likely you will experience “AHA” moment, when you realize you are the only person you should really care about in this lifetime. I clearly remember the moment when it happened to me. It was in the middle of the shitstorm, when I suddenly realized there is no way for me to save the ‘relationship’. I have felt world crumbling down. I have felt desperation, fear, emptiness, lack of control over the entire situation. And I let go. I have never felt more alone in my entire life. It was the moment I literally told to myself: ‘OK P. You are alone in this life. There is no one there to save you, so you’d better start building your life and learn to live on your own.’ It was the moment I have felt the ultimate bliss and peace. I believe at that moment I have experienced what is considered as “surrender stage” in the spiritual community.

I have completely let go of the control of the process and decided to focus on myself from now on. Bubble love phase has revealed beautifully all the core issues which I was putting off for years, both consciously and subconsciously. Originally I have considered them as flaws which make me “not perfect enough” for other person. Now I can see how they were simply indicators of imperfections and shadow sides which I can work on and eliminate from my personality.

I have been working on (and with) myself since then and I have to say, that I have never been feeling better!

5. It allows you to see life from a new perspective

Once all the synchronicities and mystical experiences start happening around you during the whole process, even if you are a hard-core skeptic (as I was before) you admit that cannot all be just a bunch of coincidences. Something inside tells you that it cannot be a coincidental meeting with another person, as very often the connection happens as a result of multiple unexpected situations and decisions/intuitive nudges experienced by both sides. Once you realize it, you open yourself for the whole another dimension without previous prejudices and limitations. You no longer take things for granted or definite and your consciousness expands as you begin to see that there is more in this world than meets the eye. And the true exciting journey begin, and you start living your best life, starting to read between the lines and noticing the meanings behind anything that happens to you.

Overall, there is no clear, definite purpose of the TF connection but the main focus is on your spiritual growth and evolution. And start living your ultralife!

VERY unpopular opinion: The purpose of a TF connection is to trigger your spiritual awakening, not to be with your TF (although this might happen at some point).

Enjoy the ride!