Twin Flame journey is considered by many as the most challenging, enriching and eye-opening connections between people to be experienced in their lifetime. The whole process is believed to be orchestrated by the Soul itself in order to trigger spiritual awakening. I like to compare it to the game in which a soul chooses the main characters (Twin Flames), scenario and environment as well as some intriguing plot twists in order to push us to the edge and, eventually, reward us with reaching higher states of consciousness.
The concept is simple: Bring two people from very different environments together a result of the most unbelievable and flamboyant coincidences. Most times people are drawn to specific places without a particular reason and they meet by accident. Looking back, it can be viewed as something ‘has caused’ two people to meet, as it was arranged for them. It is not rare that the timing of these meetings is not right. Despite instant recognition and intense connection between two people, there are often multiple obstacles that stand in the way. There is either significant age difference, language barriers or cultural differences. Another very common signs of these connections is the fact that people seem to be the their exact opposites in terms of personality. For instance, while one person is very reserved, the other might be very frivolous and relaxed. Or one is calm, another is short tempered, you know the drill.
Why do TF seem to be the total opposites of each other? Actually, it is not a coincidence that our TF is polarized at the personal/mental level. The purpose of this polarization is to put the light on our darkest sides, which hidden (by ourselves) in the deepest parts of our personalities.
Very often we tend to ignore our imperfections, weaknesses and destructive habits. There are many things to be grateful to your TF, but the most important one is the ability of pushing the right buttons. Every set of Twin Flames is given an opportunity to experience the blissful love state (aka bubble love phase) at the beginning stage of the connection. During bubble love phase they talk for hours, discuss all the possible topics and sharing the most personal traumas and problems from one’s life. I personally believe, that the purpose of those deep, long-lasting conversations each pair of TF experiences is to highlight the main issues regarding their mental, emotional and physical health that need to be address to reach the personal balance. These are simply a core issues that hold you back from becoming the best version of yourself. Initially, most TF assume the ‘necessity’ of addressing shadow parts because to become the ideal person for their “ideal partner”. Later in the process, they start to realize that the whole purpose of this initial connection was to bring your attention to YOU. In order to come to this point, one need to realize that the most important relationship in everyone’s life is the relationship with yourself.
I consider the realization of self-importance as one of the most important steps in the whole journey. Once you realize and deeply feel, that you should take care of your personal issues and flaws for yourself, you gain the sincere interest in your self-development and you are on your way to falling in love.. With yourself.
There’s no other person you can ‘save’, ‘heal’, and ‘fix’. Focus on becoming the most beautiful being you were intended to become in the first place. No one said this journey is easy, but trust me: embracing it instead of resisting it makes it easier, less painful and way more interesting.
Allow yourself to shift perspective.
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