Once you experience Twin Flame energy, there is no way to ignore it. This is a very unique experience which is most commonly triggered by encountering a person who seems like a ”perfect match’. But what is the purpose of these high-vibrational connections?
Surprisingly, being in a relationship is not the main point here. Instead, TF connection gives you an opportunity to learn, grow and evolve. True purpose is complex – it is supposed to teach you self-love and regain your inner power. Here are 5 purposes of a TF connection:
- It triggers your spiritual awakening
- It shows the happiness and potential available for you in this universe
- Makes you stand on your own feet
- It helps your personality to evolve
- It allows you to see life from a new perspective
Let’s look at every point in details.
1. It triggers your spiritual awakening
Upon meeting your TF, there is instant recognition, however it does not been you will have a chance to explain this connection further. In some case, initial meeting is just planting the seed, waiting until both parties are ready to enter the next level of this experience (it lasted EXACTLY 7 years in our case before we had a chance to reach the next level and get together).
Many years can pass but once the time is right (and you have grown spiritually and mentally), you will be guided towards exploring this connection further. I have personally been receiving intuitive nudges periodically and have felt deep, undefined emptiness and longing feeling all this time, knowing that someone out there is waiting for me. I did not know back then it was about my TF and I have decided to cut the connection as the frustration and wondering “what if” become unbearable and I decided to move on with my life. Few years later my life situation became too unsatisfactory, my stable and peaceful relationship has started to fall apart and I was truly unhappy, asking myself “is that it?” and I have felt unstoppable urge to reach out to my TF. Once we started talking again, we became deeply connected and missing feeling was gone once it happened, as if we have finally found the person we were waiting all our lives (the other party has felt the same all this time and confirmed the longing feeling was suddenly gone once we reach the next level – bubble love phase).
2. It shows the happiness and potential available for you
Once the intensive connection begins to take form, you might feel everything fall into place and you have found the person you were dreaming about all your life. You feel beyond blessed, because you have finally found the love described in books, songs and movies. Happiness is way to simple to describe this state.
For me personally, it took about 2 weeks to accept the whole situation and comprehend it by my mind. Every morning I would wake up thinking ‘Is this real?’.
Once your connection starts going through some major shitstorm and arguments, you are gradually brought back to earth. It is very likely that you too separate because there are lessons you have to learn on your own. Most importantly, at some point of this journey you realize the love you have found within yourself was meant for you and you only right from beginning (fill your cup up first, you are not able to create real balanced relationship unless you love yourself). Once you realize this, you are on the way to Union. With yourself!
3. It makes you stand on your own feet
TF connection is a source of pure happiness and joy. All the earthly matters seem so irrelevant. You become immersed in the connection with another person. You can talk to each other for hours. The purpose is to show you that what state of happiness really means. It is a teaser for you, as the phase of intensive love does not last forever. Once shit hits the fan you are brought to reality and the old limiting beliefs, patterns and personal fears and inhibitions start to emerge.
But once was then taken from me so I could get to this point by myself. It is the tangible example of pure happiness available for you once you are ready for it. And I understand why many people get angry or frustrated once the bubble love phase ends. they would love to stay in it forever but it i s not possible. It cannot last forever because it is one of the steps in the process of your spiritual evolution.
4. It helps your personality to evolve
At some time of the process, you manage to pass through the stage defined by some as “dark night of the soul” associated with the first stage of separation phase, after the end of bubble love phase. As a result, you become stronger and more independent. It is very likely you will experience “AHA” moment, when you realize you are the only person you should really care about in this lifetime. I clearly remember the moment when it happened to me. It was in the middle of the shitstorm, when I suddenly realized there is no way for me to save the ‘relationship’. I have felt world crumbling down. I have felt desperation, fear, emptiness, lack of control over the entire situation. And I let go. I have never felt more alone in my entire life. It was the moment I literally told to myself: ‘OK P. You are alone in this life. There is no one there to save you, so you’d better start building your life and learn to live on your own.’ It was the moment I have felt the ultimate bliss and peace. I believe at that moment I have experienced what is considered as “surrender stage” in the spiritual community.
I have completely let go of the control of the process and decided to focus on myself from now on. Bubble love phase has revealed beautifully all the core issues which I was putting off for years, both consciously and subconsciously. Originally I have considered them as flaws which make me “not perfect enough” for other person. Now I can see how they were simply indicators of imperfections and shadow sides which I can work on and eliminate from my personality.
I have been working on (and with) myself since then and I have to say, that I have never been feeling better!
5. It allows you to see life from a new perspective
Once all the synchronicities and mystical experiences start happening around you during the whole process, even if you are a hard-core skeptic (as I was before) you admit that cannot all be just a bunch of coincidences. Something inside tells you that it cannot be a coincidental meeting with another person, as very often the connection happens as a result of multiple unexpected situations and decisions/intuitive nudges experienced by both sides. Once you realize it, you open yourself for the whole another dimension without previous prejudices and limitations. You no longer take things for granted or definite and your consciousness expands as you begin to see that there is more in this world than meets the eye. And the true exciting journey begin, and you start living your best life, starting to read between the lines and noticing the meanings behind anything that happens to you.
Overall, there is no clear, definite purpose of the TF connection but the main focus is on your spiritual growth and evolution. And start living your ultralife!
VERY unpopular opinion: The purpose of a TF connection is to trigger your spiritual awakening, not to be with your TF (although this might happen at some point).
Enjoy the ride!
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