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  • How to embrace multi-dimensionality of your Twin Flame experience

    We all occasionally compare our Twin Flame experience with other people. It is tempting to dive into the tiniest details, trying to understand every single question mark left by our counterpart when we entered the separation phase. While identifying similarities in ours and someone else’s journey can help us to understanding the bigger picture of the journey, we need to remember, that we all have a unique energetic blueprint which can be manifested as an extraordinary Twin Flame dynamic varying from person to person.

    There can be vast differences including:

    • age gap
    • religious and societal barriers
    • Number of Twin-Flame-like connections (connections with similar dynamics as original Twin Flame experience)
    • core traumas and addictions to clear within the connection

    Despite those few and perhaps many other differences reflected in our personal stories, there is one key aspect present in all of them: Spiritual evolution and our personal connection to Twin Flame energy (also called as source energy or universal energy) which is available to all of us at all times, as long as we are open to it.

    Ignition at the journey marked by intense connection and heart center opening is only a glimpse of where we can head with our evolutionary process. Overwhelming energetic experience is initially really difficult to comprehend when we approach it from our limited 3D understanding.

    Fortunately, the journey itself will be guiding us towards the experiences that can help us expand our levels of consciousness, as a results gaining broader understanding and approaching life for more multidimensional experience. In other words, you will be able to invite more fluid, loose definitions of the experience, leaving room for surprises and transformation along the way as you discover deeper layers of your being.


    “Best way to avoid premature union/settlement is to detach emotionally and allow the energy to work through you. It will lead you to the partner which carries the same level of consciousness as you do once you processed all the energy exchanged with each other during the ignition state. “


    While spiritual community likes refers to 3D (material world) / 4D (magical/astral world) and 5D (miracle world), Twin Flame paradigm can be divided in simpler way, depending whether we allow our inner intuition to help us in the process.

    1. Ego-based paradigm: limits the Twin Flame experience to set of Twin Flames creating the dimensional barrier to get to the next, higher dimensions of the experience. It assumes that people originally ignited through Twin Flame experience are each other’s counterparts and together work together to achieve Twin Flame union.
    2. Energy-based paradigm: defines Twin Flame as an energetic experience between two people. It is energetic dynamic heavily dependent on the level of awareness of both individuals. It does not limit Twin Flame experience to any specific person and it is seen as a never-ending process of reconnecting with Twin Flame energy through the unified shared field.

    The problem with first understanding is that it keep given set of twins in the human based understanding of the journey. If the individual’s level of consciousness does not allow to expand beyond human-awareness of the Twin Flame connection, there is high chance that they will be involved in runner-chaser dynamic, working through their traumas and limitations, potentially being able to create relationship. One risk is, that it will be keeping person locked on 3D-based level of awareness of the whole dynamic. There’s nothing inherently wrong with it, but there is a chance that original “Twin” does not posses equal level of awareness unless we approach the connection from the soul based (a.k.a multidimensional) perspective which can lead to the feeling of “waiting” for the other Twin to mature or awake to the journey.

    Taking your spiritual journey seriously and embracing the expansion process can allow to experience soul-level resonance with our counterpart. Best way to understand it is to imagine that your initial Twin / Catalyst is a teenage version of your Twin Flame counterpart. It can happen, that throughout the journey, both people will mature but at the human level each of us takes it’s own time to got through our spiritual lessons and awaken. Getting attached to any particular expression of a Twin Flame energy puts us in a risk, that we are being locked in the teenage state of the whole experience. Best way to avoid premature union/settlement is to detach emotionally and allow the energy to work through you. It will lead you to the partner which carries the same level of consciousness as you do once you processed all the energy exchanged with each other during the ignition state.

    Processing the initial “dose” of Twin Flame energy allows to enter the experience at the soul level for both counterparts equally. Once we reconnect with the right counterpart who has a matching level of awareness and maturity, both parties will be on the same page spiritually, mutually recognizing the connection and the presence of the shared third energy between them.

    If you have been waiting on your Twin Flame to awaken, reconnect, or unblock you and you feel lack of balance in the way they treat the connection, there is a chance you need to let go of that particular person as you may be still holding onto their “premature” (teenage) expression. Once you let go and open towards the next levels of experience, the counterpart matching your levels of spiritual maturity and awareness can be attracted to you (you will be guided beautifully along the way).

    It is time we help each other to get out of old Twin Flame paradigm and embrace our multidimensional nature.

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  • Disconnect with your Twin Flame to see the bigger picture

    Twin Flame journey is our gateway to higher knowledge and spiritual evolution. However, in most cases, there is a price to be paid for this knowledge. Being able to accept the separation or a complete ending of the connection is probably one of the most difficult parts of the entire journey. In this post I explained how the separation on a soul level, both short-term (during runner-chaser phase) and long-term (during separation phase) is necessary for soul’s evolution and growth.

    First, it is important to recognize, that the nature and level of connection between two souls strongly determines the depth of understanding of the human nature. Being able to build and maintain harmonized connection is crucial to enable the flow of the universal consciousness.

    One of the most distinct dynamics present in the soul connections are runner-chaser dynamic similar to a magnetic push and pull – just as if people were two magnets. Lack of equilibrium in their internal energetic field makes it impossible to produce harmonious universal field of consciousness between two souls which would allow them to access higher wisdom throughout their journey.

    “Being able to build and maintain harmonized connection is crucial to enable the flow of the universal consciousness.”

    Initially, upon recognition of two souls, there is sudden attraction and they are magnetized very closely towards each other. However, imbalance in their internal fields often causes them to start pulling each other away. From the “human” perspective, this situation is usually referred to as a “runner-chaser” dynamic and is considered as an unhealthy pattern, but there is a purpose of this push. Any separation on the soul level causes both souls to expand and evolve. At some point of the journey, when both counterparts are ready, the process of evolution causes two souls to pull infinitely far from each other. The further two souls become distant to each other, the deeper understanding of the entire process in both energetic counterparts. Complete energetic disconnection between two souls may sometimes be necessary to bring the harmony in their fields. That is one of the main reasons why it is in most cases necessary to lose the contact in 3D and even 5D (energetically), to attain the infinite wisdom and understanding of the Universal order. “We need to look deeply enough to see”.

    If we are focused on people that are close to us energetically, especially during the emotionally and mentally intense ignition phase, we are discarding completely the Universal nature of things. Our both worlds merge together not leaving any space for expansion. This state is in a way “neutral” from the evolutionary standpoint since it does not create enough change and progress.

    Throughout the connection, souls can experience multiple separations depending on the level of their emotional, spiritual and mental growth. People who have not matured enough to maintain a peaceful connection, may be fall back to the old patterns and will need to separate in order to fix unhealthy behaviors. One special case is the long-term separation, during which counterparts involved in the Twin Flame connection need to completely disconnect in order to get to the next level in their soul evolution and reveal the true nature of the connection. This is often the case, when Twin Flames are splitting and cut the communication completely, for months or even years.

    In those cases, only complete energetic disconnect from your Divine Counterpart as understood in the human experience can bring to us back the very thing we had to let go and not completely aware – our Divine Essence. Through non-attachment to the physical world, personal preferences and expectations. At the same time, upon surrendering completely to Twin Flame journey, we are proving our trust and readiness towards our spiritual evolution which is a very important threshold which brings us higher understanding of the energetic nature of the Twin Flame process. In some cases, this moment brings towards each other two people ignited independently through completely separate Twin Flame experiences. This may happen when they individually achieved a proper mental and spiritual level to reach higher levels of consciousness faster than their ‘original’ Twin Flame counterpart, but fastest progress could happen through the partnership with another person.

    As difficult as it may seem, accepting the evolutionary nature of the Twin Flame experience gives an opportunity to see more complete picture of the entire journey. We have to remember, that positive and negative experiences only exist in a duality-based reality; There is no good or bad at the source of all things. Your soul will be guiding you towards the experiences that are necessary for your growth, no matter how joyful, stressful, painful or sad they seem from our perspective.

    Stay open and ready for the new and embrace all the experiences coming your way.

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