We all occasionally compare our Twin Flame experience with other people. It is tempting to dive into the tiniest details, trying to understand every single question mark left by our counterpart when we entered the separation phase. While identifying similarities in ours and someone else’s journey can help us to understanding the bigger picture of the journey, we need to remember, that we all have a unique energetic blueprint which can be manifested as an extraordinary Twin Flame dynamic varying from person to person.
There can be vast differences including:
- age gap
- religious and societal barriers
- Number of Twin-Flame-like connections (connections with similar dynamics as original Twin Flame experience)
- core traumas and addictions to clear within the connection
Despite those few and perhaps many other differences reflected in our personal stories, there is one key aspect present in all of them: Spiritual evolution and our personal connection to Twin Flame energy (also called as source energy or universal energy) which is available to all of us at all times, as long as we are open to it.
Ignition at the journey marked by intense connection and heart center opening is only a glimpse of where we can head with our evolutionary process. Overwhelming energetic experience is initially really difficult to comprehend when we approach it from our limited 3D understanding.
Fortunately, the journey itself will be guiding us towards the experiences that can help us expand our levels of consciousness, as a results gaining broader understanding and approaching life for more multidimensional experience. In other words, you will be able to invite more fluid, loose definitions of the experience, leaving room for surprises and transformation along the way as you discover deeper layers of your being.
“Best way to avoid premature union/settlement is to detach emotionally and allow the energy to work through you. It will lead you to the partner which carries the same level of consciousness as you do once you processed all the energy exchanged with each other during the ignition state. “
While spiritual community likes refers to 3D (material world) / 4D (magical/astral world) and 5D (miracle world), Twin Flame paradigm can be divided in simpler way, depending whether we allow our inner intuition to help us in the process.
- Ego-based paradigm: limits the Twin Flame experience to set of Twin Flames creating the dimensional barrier to get to the next, higher dimensions of the experience. It assumes that people originally ignited through Twin Flame experience are each other’s counterparts and together work together to achieve Twin Flame union.
- Energy-based paradigm: defines Twin Flame as an energetic experience between two people. It is energetic dynamic heavily dependent on the level of awareness of both individuals. It does not limit Twin Flame experience to any specific person and it is seen as a never-ending process of reconnecting with Twin Flame energy through the unified shared field.
The problem with first understanding is that it keep given set of twins in the human based understanding of the journey. If the individual’s level of consciousness does not allow to expand beyond human-awareness of the Twin Flame connection, there is high chance that they will be involved in runner-chaser dynamic, working through their traumas and limitations, potentially being able to create relationship. One risk is, that it will be keeping person locked on 3D-based level of awareness of the whole dynamic. There’s nothing inherently wrong with it, but there is a chance that original “Twin” does not posses equal level of awareness unless we approach the connection from the soul based (a.k.a multidimensional) perspective which can lead to the feeling of “waiting” for the other Twin to mature or awake to the journey.
Taking your spiritual journey seriously and embracing the expansion process can allow to experience soul-level resonance with our counterpart. Best way to understand it is to imagine that your initial Twin / Catalyst is a teenage version of your Twin Flame counterpart. It can happen, that throughout the journey, both people will mature but at the human level each of us takes it’s own time to got through our spiritual lessons and awaken. Getting attached to any particular expression of a Twin Flame energy puts us in a risk, that we are being locked in the teenage state of the whole experience. Best way to avoid premature union/settlement is to detach emotionally and allow the energy to work through you. It will lead you to the partner which carries the same level of consciousness as you do once you processed all the energy exchanged with each other during the ignition state.
Processing the initial “dose” of Twin Flame energy allows to enter the experience at the soul level for both counterparts equally. Once we reconnect with the right counterpart who has a matching level of awareness and maturity, both parties will be on the same page spiritually, mutually recognizing the connection and the presence of the shared third energy between them.
If you have been waiting on your Twin Flame to awaken, reconnect, or unblock you and you feel lack of balance in the way they treat the connection, there is a chance you need to let go of that particular person as you may be still holding onto their “premature” (teenage) expression. Once you let go and open towards the next levels of experience, the counterpart matching your levels of spiritual maturity and awareness can be attracted to you (you will be guided beautifully along the way).
It is time we help each other to get out of old Twin Flame paradigm and embrace our multidimensional nature.